Involuntary spasms of the muscles of the vaginal wall (vaginismus) can make attempts at penetration very painful. There is a cycle of pain that includes anticpatory pain anxiety which contributes to the tightening of the vaginal muscles. If this occurs, you might avoid intimacy or intercourse with your partner or even seeing your gynecologist in order to assess your symptoms.

 

If you experience one of the following you could have Vaginismus:

Ongoing painful sex

Vaginal tightness/Burning

Penetration Difficulties

Age related sexual pain

Pain after surgery or childbirth

Difficulty with tampons/gyn exams

 

Why do I have this?

This is a condition that is unique because it can be caused by many variables. If you have been diagnosed with Vaginismus, then it is important to understand how emotional and physical factors have, if at all, impacted you. It is important to know that sometimes there are no external or internal causes for this issue.

 

Emotional

Sexual Abuse/Rape

Relationship Problems

Negative family of origin

Fear of Pain

 

Physical

Menopause

Cancer

Surgery

Vulvar Pain

Birthing

Infections: Yeast/Urinary Tract Infections (UTI’s)

HINT: Many doctors do not understand or know about this diagnosis. If your pain persists, don’t take “I don’t know” or “This is in your head” as an answer. There are physicians who do KNOW about vaginismus and can help you find a solution to the pain.